There are many, who are in relationship or married. However, in them exists a constant doubt of each others compatibility. My question is how can one recognize compatibility in an affair?
Recognizing compatibility has a lot to do with the initial chemistry that happens when you first meet someone. Usually you can sense when the vibe feels right, the eye contact is good & you feel a sense of comfort around this person you don't know yet. You may find yourself smiling a little more and a great feeling may overcome you. All of this to me is natural and only happens around certain people. When that happens it usually goes to the next step of talking to know more about the individual to find out if you are truly compatible.
Being compatible does begin with attraction and chemistry. When I meet someone who shares the same intrests with things that are important to me such as sprituality,family, commitment, trust, intimacy, children, sparks fly! but these things must be important to them in there own life...sometimes you can be compatible with someone sexually but not in other areas...when this happens it usually dosent last...to have lasting compatibility you should be equally yoked.
I think that compatability is when someone enhances who you are as an individual. People often think that if they have all the same interests and do everything together that they are compatible. I have seen so many people change from who they were to who thier partner wants them to be and think this is really sad after all what attracted you to each other in the first place. The fundamental things in life such as family, children, spirituality etc should be similar as these may cause problems at a later date. I think its mainly about respect, trust and love and in that order. If you dont respect your significant other than you will end up resenting them, if you dont trust them than ultimatley that will taint any love that you have for them. Relationships are hard work but if you have the right foundations you can build on it together. You dont ave to agree with everything your partner says or does but you have to respect thier desicions-i believe that is compatability.
Recognizing compatibility has a lot to do with the initial chemistry that happens when you first meet someone. Usually you can sense when the vibe feels right, the eye contact is good & you feel a sense of comfort around this person you don't know yet. You may find yourself smiling a little more and a great feeling may overcome you. All of this to me is natural and only happens around certain people. When that happens it usually goes to the next step of talking to know more about the individual to find out if you are truly compatible.
ReplyDeleteBeing compatible does begin with attraction and chemistry. When I meet someone who shares the same intrests with things that are important to me such as sprituality,family, commitment, trust, intimacy, children, sparks fly! but these things must be important to them in there own life...sometimes you can be compatible with someone sexually but not in other areas...when this happens it usually dosent last...to have lasting compatibility you should be equally yoked.
ReplyDeleteI think that compatability is when someone enhances who you are as an individual. People often think that if they have all the same interests and do everything together that they are compatible. I have seen so many people change from who they were to who thier partner wants them to be and think this is really sad after all what attracted you to each other in the first place. The fundamental things in life such as family, children, spirituality etc should be similar as these may cause problems at a later date. I think its mainly about respect, trust and love and in that order. If you dont respect your significant other than you will end up resenting them, if you dont trust them than ultimatley that will taint any love that you have for them. Relationships are hard work but if you have the right foundations you can build on it together. You dont ave to agree with everything your partner says or does but you have to respect thier desicions-i believe that is compatability.
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